Whoever that is is being selfish himself. He's probably jealous of you and Cynth, and is just channeling his jealousy into words. You're definitely not a bad person.

oh no- did Q say that?! oh my goodness, don't feel down, Juen :[ you're not a bad person! and you're not selfish! these are just cruel words to put you down in the dumps! you need to fight em! they mean a thing because they're not true! i know you, and you're a good person! and I actually MET you, so I know < :] and you did meet Cynthia, too! you have had facetime with her, right? this guy obviously doesn't know what he's saying so you should pay no attention to him!

and it's your choice to ignore people when it's YOUR summer vacation. what you decide to do is your decision. and if this guy doesn't like what you choose, well then that's his problem! he'll have to deal with being ignored >:[ if he can't do that, then that means he doesn't accept you and what you do. you shouldn't be hanging with people like that! especially ppl like Q, who justs pretends to be your friend around other ppl but rly bullies you and betrays you behind the scenes! you shouldn't let ppl do that to you! and you certainly shouldn't let it get to you either! if i was there, I'd kick Q's but.t for you! that guy really needs some sense! i really wonder why lori and yuki can't see that Q is a bully to you :[

and i really wish i could tell lori but i feel like that she would but.t in and make things worse, which is why i understand why you wouldn't want me to tell her. i think you should have a group talk with em somtime and tell em how you feel. you shouldn't bottle up your feelings and cry alone :[ makes me upset to know that a friend of mine is depressed. i wish i could cheer you up, buddy. you're an awesome friend! and i wish i got to spend more time with you guys before i left ">3< i can only wish :l hang in there, bud! me and cyn are here for ya < :]

Jesus

Gabs...Cyn...Hannah...
T-thank you... so much...
Even though it happened last night... I'm still feeling "broken" about this...
@Hannah- maybe... But I have been ignoring him... But i only did it because I wanted to spend more time on here and with my friends & gf...
@Gabs & Nerdy- I'll get to your comments in a sec... I want to explain what happened last night...

So... it happened last night... I was about to go to bed and I was exhausted. All of a sudden, I get a message from (his name is Quintin or Q for short) saying:

Q-What are we not friends anymore or are you being a jerk and ignoring me?

J-Sorry dude. I just don't feel like talking with anyone at school rite now. I just wanna enjoy my summer.

Q-That's not cool bro.

J-Please accept my decision. I like to enjoy my summer & I'm not gonna be 100 percent on Facebook.

Q-I just like to keep in touch. You should respect that.

J-You should also respect that I like to stay secluded.

Q-You know what, fine. Just go talk to ur "gf" and none of the people you've actually met.

J-Look I don't mean to anger you. Really I don't... I don't know what to say to you anymore ;-;

Q-There is nothing to say. You're being pretty selfish.

Brb. I got more to say but I'm heading to Target for a little while.

@Hannah- maybe he is, maybe he isn't... Or as my friend Justin says: "He's just bored."
But his attitude has changed ever since me & Cyn started datin. But if it is jealousy... then, I don't understand... Thanks for the kind words, Hannah.

@Promises- Where do I begin... well first of all I gotta thank you. You've been there for me ever since we've regained contact by ACNL & by Colors! Yes... Q did say this... And I couldn't stop crying yesterday... I never knew how far he'd go... I wanted to ask him how he thought that was selfish but I was so fed up with talking with him... That's true! I talk to you also and I met you! I wish we spent more time together at school cus it would've been really fun to get to know you. :)
Justin says that he's really bored and that I should just ignore this...

Well I just wanna ignore peeps from school. I still like talking to Cyn, you, & Hannah. I'm deciding whether or not I should still stay his "friend." He's caused so much stress & issues that I'm really leaning over to not have him in my life anymore.

I don't know... he's really disrespectful for saying "gf" and "actually met". That was very disrespectful. Sure I haven't Vid chat-ed with Cynthia but I still talk with her. Geez...

They must think that he's joking but not truly analyzing the situation. I mean I see when people are upset and I usually try to cheer them up, and it usually works great!
Lol I can imagine you "anime-style" kicking his but.t and he falls into the trash can XD

Well here's the thing. Iori & Yuki will be informed by Q soon enough. I know he'd go that far. I'll message you and you can tell her about this "Facebook situation." But I don't recomend telling her about the Q & Yuki situation... That's past.

Um... unfortunately me & Cyn haven't Vid Chat yet but I'm not going back to school until we've vid chatted at least once, or unless her parents won't allow it.

I'm glad you three are here for me... I'm really struggling about this situation and I can't even draw properly right now... My hand keeps shaking...

You three are the best. I can't ask for better friends than you three. Cynthia, Gabby, Hannah...
arrigato-gozaimasu!! :D
You three are the best!

Cynthia, thank you so much for understanding. I thought that you'd think of me as a bad person and you'd possibly reconsider whether you'd still like to be in a relationship or not.
I love you so much and I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to you. I couldn.t live with myself if something bad happened... Also... sorry for dragging you into this as well. And if you didn't realize it, this is Quintin. The guy who tried to friend request you on fb.
But plz don't comment to him. It will only cause more drama and anything involving him... I want NO part of it whatsoever...

Oh no problem, buddeh. You guys are my only friends so, yeah :p well, ya, ignore him like Justin suggested. Q needs ta stop bein a bully :l when i first saw you & Q, i thought you two were close friends, but as they say, "looks can be deceiving"

well, you've actually talked to Cyn and you know what she actually looks like so you have met her- just not in person but it's not like that matters. what matters is the emotion and plus, you will meet her face to face someday! :3 so cheer up, man! look on the bright side of things ^^

yeah, you need to tell them that Q has been being more of a bully than a friend to you!

haha, i just visualized that now XP

ok, i'll inform Lori when i find the time to.
I see. well, don't let it get to you- hopefully you can recover soon so you can draw again :]
and you're very welcome! anytime ^^

that's probably why he's so mean. he has no other guy friends to talk to so he thinks it's fun to just pick on you. You're the only one on his menu and he's gonna eat you up! Don't be on his list, Juen! o-o

you should talk to him directly. tell him that he has caused you so much pain and stress and you don't want to be his friend anymore. heck, what kind of friend causes pain, stress, and puts weight on others? i don't think he was a friend to you in any way at all. tell him, because he doesn't seem to understand that he's hurt you so much and you just don't want to put up with him anymore. stand up for yourself and what you believe in. that's the only way things will change.

I'm pretty sure you have more friends than us but I apprecite this. I really do. :)
Justin is usually right in things so I should just ignore it...
I'm pretty sure that's what EVERYBODY thought. But there hasn't been a person who's seen his jerkiness other than Justin...
I'm starting to believe that... Looks can be deceiving...

Of course I've talked to Cyn XD
You were the one who introduced us silly X3
Really I don't mind. I know that I'll meet Cynthia real soon. And I know that we'll be together. She said she wants to meet me too so I'll make sure we meet.
Verry true! The emotions I feel for Cynthia are very strong. And I know that she shares the feelings too :3
Lol well it's nite-time so maybe tomorrow morning XD

If the situation becomes drastic... then I'll be sure to tell Iori & Yuki. Especially if they think I'm the one who's wrong.
-Choto matte!!- Don't tell her until I message you that's okay to do so.

Maybe I'll try drawing tomorrow. Maybe artist's block is gone. Lol I visualized also that he was brought to the dump because he was stuck in the trash bin XD

No. Q has more friends but he acknowledges me as his "bestfriend." But even my parents see that Q is trouble... Once he called the house SO MANY TIMES just because he was bored... -_-
Geez... If I'm on his list... then I'll be sure to get out of it. That list will no longer include me.

Right now... I really don't want to. He's being a pain & I don't feel like talking to him...

Just watch... he'll tell Yuki & Iori & I'll probably be considered the bad guy in this situation.

If the situation gets too drastic then I will. I'm starting to get tired of him... Pushing me around... Not being supportive... Not being there when I needed help... Saying my love for Cyn is all in my head and she doesn't truly love me...
Maybe he was my friend but once he got to know me more, he became more of a jerk. Yea. Once he goes overboard, I will. I hate how much he's done... True. This will probably be the only way to finally be rid of the problem...

However, it seems that Yuki & Iori seem to like Q more than me... I can see them just thinking I'm the bad guy in this. At least Yuki asks both sides before coming to a conclusion.

Naw, I don't have that many friends :P yeah, ignore Q. i don't see why ppl are fooled by his facade

haha, ya :p

ya! just say the word & i'll tell lori :]
haha XD Did I woop him that good? :P

how can you be the bad guy? D: how can they not see that Q is the bully? :[ I hope you will find a way to resolve this and exploit Q for who he truly is. all i can do is wish u luck < :]

Gabby... hontoni... arrigato gozaimasu... Really... Thank you. I thought that you'd be bored with this situation and not offer any help at all. However, you did the opposite and stick with me & support me so much...
Well if you only have a few friends, then it's an honor to be your friend :)
I'm already considering you to be one of my closest friends :D

I still need to see. Judging Q... he'd tell Iori first, then Becky. He's done that a BUNCH of times so I know by experience.
And they usually take his side...
-sigh-
Well the mini-comic series I'm making of you, me, Cyn, & possibly Hannah shows you wooped him "epic-ly" XD

I have no idea... I'm just hoping that Iori & Yuki will listen to my part of the story before jumping to conclusions. For some odd reason... I'm getting the feeling that Q is "blambing" Cyn for my "actions." How he said those words are almost as if he thinks Cyn is making me act this way; (however it's my choice, not Cyn's) did you notice that?

I'm not looking forward to Junior year. Probably he's already told Iori & Yuki. And when I get back to Jcs, I'll be asked questions, or worse... shunned -_-

I'll do my best to handle the situation. The most drastic thing I might do is move to a different school but I don't think that's really necessary in this type of situation. I'm still figuring out ways for people see how he "really" is around me. People see what he does but they only think he's joking/playing around.

Lol. I'll take all the luck & support I can get. And if it works, my life can go much smoother. Btw, since you & Cyn have been supporting me so much, I'm gonna make pics for you two! It'll be up real soon! :D

But idk if I can post till' Saturday... My dad is coming to pick me up & I'm staying with him for 4 days starting on Wednesday. And I doubt I'll have great wi-fi as well as I do at home :P

aw, thx -u-

well I'll try to convince Lori and tell her that Q is the bad guy here! and explain how much that guy hurts you!

ya dont hav to make a comic :p

then tell Q that it's been entirely your actions and choices and Cyn has nothing to do with any of it

shunned?! D: man, i rly wish i was there to help ya, buddy :[ i hope you can figure it out!
pics of us? ok haha. i can wait. -v-

I'm SOOOO SORRY FOR THE REALLLLLY LATE reply...
Thanks but I don't know if I need it yet.
Apparently it seems, he has nothing to do. And also he's mad at me because I can't attend his 16th b-day. I'll send you the conversation later...
I'll try to manage... but I'm pretty sure junior will be rough with him still at Jcs...

Here's what happened recently:

Q-Hey I know you don't really want to but my 16th birthday is on the **th of this month & I was hoping you might be interested in coming. I am able to invite 6 friends. I invited -----
and 2 other friends. So there's 3 more spots, you should come it's really important to me that you be there.

J-I'm sorry dude... I'm outta town... (adding text)

J- (Continued) It's the annaversary of my grandma's dea.th... So I wanna be there for my mom & my family... I know your 16th b-day is important but there's nothing I can do... I'm sorry... Happy b-day in advance...

Q- (Makes mad/annoyed face)

J- I'm sorry dude...

Q- Just leave me be

J- If that's what you really want...

Q- Well if you can't show up to something that we all consider a great milestone

Srry to be honest but ever since you got a girlfriend you changed & not in a good way either

So yea. It looks like either we're not friends anymore/ he's truly disappointed even if I can't make it...

soka... needless to say, I think that Q is being silly and whatever you choose to do is your choice. If he doesn't like it, that's his problem. Why go to someone's birthday party if they have been a jerk to you? And plus, you were going to your grandmother's death anniversary so that's another reason why you can't go. Tell him how it is -u-