my fried is dating a guy that used to be a jerk to me in school (he was mean to her too) and i thought he was still i jerk but he's actually a really cool guy!!!!!
when i came out to her she stopped using female pronouns imediatly and started using male ones! so her boyfriend started usind too and he never questioned!!!! so when they called me as by my male nicknames one of my friends asked why and he said "she's a boy, dude. gay boy to be exact"