"once i had the best friend i can find then one time we were playing some randome game on the grass very close to trees then i got pushed into a tree by him :(. another time when i was sick for 7 days he never said: oh happy you're better, or anything like that :("
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22 Apr, 2014, 9:49 pm
u can try talking to your friend
22 Apr, 2014, 9:49 pm
*hugs* so, maybe u can talk to him (as.suming it's a guy) about ur problem, perhaps u can politely ask what's going with him, maybe he has something troubling him and is taking it out on u because ur close to him :T
22 Apr, 2014, 9:50 pm
oh it is a guy srry ^-^'
22 Apr, 2014, 9:57 pm
We all have lives that take up a lot of our time and thoughts. When your friend's not around you, he may go through a lot of different things. Many friends (especially guy friends, sadly) don't talk about their feelings with each other. So maybe he pushed you into the tree playfully or maybe he was in a bad mood. And maybe he had other things on his mind when you came back after being sick and was too distracted by whatever happened while you were sick. It could also be that, as a guy, society teaches him never to show certain emotions like compassion, sympathy, love or sadness because they're considered "weak" and guys have to never be weak. The only way to make things right is to work with your friend on breaking through the brainwashing that society does to the point where you two can talk about your feelings with each other. It's not your fault society has messed up guys this way, but it's up to you to step up and change it in your own life.
22 Apr, 2014, 9:59 pm
Yes, it'll be hard because most people never even question that guys must be tough is a brainwashing technique that robs guys of their humanity, but if he truly matters to you as a friend, it's worth it. And, who knows, maybe you'll both learn something about yourself and the world in the process.
22 Apr, 2014, 10:39 pm
well, thats not to bad. just some people dont notice some things, or how bad it felt to the other person :p
23 Apr, 2014, 1:24 am
That is a sad story. :(
23 Apr, 2014, 1:25 am
But just sayin. My dad told me people bully others bc the bully thinks its funny to hurt sum1 else. :<