"well it doesn't bother me much now, and this is more of a test :) but im a girl and I play football. and theres this idiot whos shorter than me and has been playing for many more years than i have. (as far as i can tell) not many ppl like him because he thinks he is better than everyone. Well ANYWAY he plays tightend and i go in for him. but for some stupid reason he likes picking on me." (continued in comments)
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22 Apr, 2014, 9:08 am
(continued from description) "perhaps because one time i pushed him //far// past the line and coach congratulated me and he raged, and stuff like that idk, but he taunts me and says im "afraid of him" because i run faster instead of facing him going after the ball, and he calls me a bad player and stuff. (witch i admit im not the best because im skinny so that's probably why)
but sometimes it gets bad, and he hurts me physicly, heck i dont fight back because hes a moron and he hits me unexpectedly. once i was on defence and he was on offence (offence you only block, pass offence) so anyway i through him out of the way and was about to get the quarterback and the whistle was blown but he raged and as i was stopping from running he slammed into my back knocking me forward tackling me." (cont)
22 Apr, 2014, 9:13 am
"no one saw. but 1: this was after the whistle 2: thats way agenst offence regulations. it was so random. i was just standing there looking at a tree and he tackles me from behind. and it hurt because it was unexpected and i landed on my arm. i said 'what the heck?' and he said something mean i don't want to say on here. eh...footballs over now, but im not sure about next season. idk what to do but i guess it doesn't matter im just testing :p"
22 Apr, 2014, 9:30 am
It's possible that this "I'm better than everyone else" attitude is his way of trying to show he's more confident than he really feels. He might suffer from insecurity issues. After all, you said he was short and you called him "an idiot" and "a moron" when talking about him in different parts, so it's possible he's been called those kinds of names outloud and not just behind his back on a 3DS. When people feel insecure about themselves, they can internalize it and blame themselves and turn away from others. Think of this as offence where you don't tackle, you just run. Or they can externalize it and take their frustrations out on others. Given that he likes football, that already tells me he's probably someone who wants to push his feelings outside of himself and not inside. Football is a vi.olent sport that lets people take their frustrations out through physical attacks. The rules don't matter. Once you open that up, you can't stop it because someone letting out their emotions
22 Apr, 2014, 9:31 am
"hugs happybrick" that's bad! well, glad you're not too worried about it but still hope you'll be ok. the best thing to do would be to tell an adult, your coach maybe?
22 Apr, 2014, 9:40 am
through a game isn't really "playing" at all, but realeasing. You need to decide what you like about football and if that is more important to you than someone attacking you, because it won't necessarily end just with him. Maybe it will, but football is an open invitation to people with agression problems and emotional baggage. If you truly enjoy football for the sport, then don't let him ruin it for you. Take a stand, but just make sure you don't make things worse by calling him names back, no matter what he calls you. After all, it doesn't matter who starts a war, just that there was one. Get the coach involved if you don't feel comfortable dealing with it yourself, but again try to understand that he may have a lot of issues and is using football to release his frustrations. He's a human being just like you and needs to be shown a limit without making him want to lash out more. You did say you thought no one liked him, so he may not have friends and that's only making things worse.
22 Apr, 2014, 11:36 am
RR Makes everyone feel better 'w'
22 Apr, 2014, 4:43 pm
Dont worry happybrick.ive been bullied before.Its tough but ignore them thats the best you can do.Another thing is tell someone you trust.
22 Apr, 2014, 7:59 pm
Hey Kate, my advise is to maybe hit him harder like you have before and, trash talk him. (not bullying and yes there is a differance) Just to expose him for being an immature sore-loser (to put it lightly) Yes I know this was just a test but, whatever you know. Plus we already talked about this, but this is kinda where it counts. lol
22 Apr, 2014, 10:37 pm
xD alright, thanks guys for the support