Let's Help BlueTurkey! by Bully Free Zone

@BlueTurkey: "Lately, my guy friend, has been calling me names, not like "id:ot" or "stu.pid" but like the b word, like curse word insults. Also, he's been telling me to "get back in the kitchen". He'll go too far sometimes also, I may tease him once in awhile but not like what he does, and I never go too far with the teasing, and I only tease him once or twice a month."

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painted on a Nintendo 3DS
30 Mar, 2014, 1:48 am
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Rogue Ranger

30 Mar, 2014, 2:13 am

It sounds like he's somehow hearing and then repeating male chauvinist lines designed to put women down or "in their place" (lesser than men). You may need to confront him directly on this to find out where he's hearing this from because it's not funny, but obnoxious and he probably doesn't want to be obnoxious. He may not even fully understand how insulting he's being until you bring it up to him. A goal should be to find out where he's hearing it and convince him to avoid listening to that source. After all, men who say things like that will never get anywhere with women, so, as his friend, he should know you're trying to help him and not just yourself.

Malifia

30 Mar, 2014, 5:55 am

I agree to! I know alot of guys who talk like that. What is going on with society? Can't we all just get along? Why does such hurtful language need to be used? I'm sure that if you stress how you feel about the matter, he should understand. But If he dosn't I wouldn't be friends with him. Because he dosn't respect you're feelings. :O

super*star

30 Mar, 2014, 5:46 pm

i agree with RR
also, i dont think he realizes how much he's hurting u with his words, so i think u shuld just tell him

angelbear1

31 Mar, 2014, 5:44 am

I agree with RR. I hope things get better, and remember your not alone.
MEGA ANGEL BEAR HUGS

CarlosTheHedgehog

31 Mar, 2014, 5:07 pm

I'd like help with a lot of things... But It may be A Little too much to Say... Basically, I have Depression, & Loneliness In the Real world. & On Top of that, i have just been hacked. & is recovering the Stuff that the hacker @Coolio Messed with.. i Would Apreciate if you Could help me & a Few of my Friends.. Thanks..

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