Ive NEVER had a boyfriend. Thats right. Im 19 and I have never had a real boyfriend. One in like 5th grade but he didnt really like me. Just felt sorry for me when I asked him out. Im fu.cking pathetic! I cant even make and keep normal friends! My social anxiety is to bad to even talk to people. Every valentines day just makes me feel more lonely.
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12 Feb, 2014, 5:43 am
:(
12 Feb, 2014, 5:43 am
looks like we have more in common than i though TTvTT
12 Feb, 2014, 5:49 am
me too acidwolf...i have 19 years old to an i hate valentines day! btw don't worry, you are not alone... *heart*
12 Feb, 2014, 5:54 am
i have anxiety too. never had a BF never will.
12 Feb, 2014, 6:05 am
TT ^ TT I'm right there with you... -sits in the forever alone corner-
12 Feb, 2014, 6:06 am
wow... i just posted a WIP about me being like this.. im dealing with a crush/bf/ IDK! its soo hard but i bet its harder being alot older.. :< hope you feel better Acid.. ((( love your fursuit btw!) (seen it on yt).. sorry had nothing to do with this XE
12 Feb, 2014, 6:24 am
I don't get the big deal really xD I mean, in cartoons and stuff... but not real life.(lol)
12 Feb, 2014, 6:25 am
I've never had a bf either (I don't know if I ever will). I hope you feel better soon...
12 Feb, 2014, 6:37 am
My first boyfriend, I was 17. First guy to ask me out. I wasn't even interested in him, but I thought guys just didn't like me. :/ A bit later he told me guys kept telling him his girl friend is hott. @.@ So just because no one has asked you out, doesn't mean you're unliked. And don't take someone you aren't interested in just because they asked... that relationship was a really terrible 2 year experience. >.<
12 Feb, 2014, 6:39 am
Yeah, sometimes I wonder if Valentines Day was made just to make us anti-social people feel like as$...
Hope you feel better soon...
12 Feb, 2014, 6:45 am
Switch the word boyfriend to girlfriend and you just decribed my life too. I know exactly how you feel.
Honestly, I've gotten pretty good at taking my mind off it most of the year, but Valentine's Day is an unavoidable little reminder of how lonely I really am.
12 Feb, 2014, 7:11 am
I kinda know how you feel. :T
But I just spread the love and wish everyone else a happy Valentine's Day. I'm also shy to talk to new people.
12 Feb, 2014, 7:15 am
having social anxiety is the worst.... Just try and stay positive and just think to yourself: It's getting closer to pancake day
12 Feb, 2014, 8:17 am
I rarely text my best friends either. Usually they have to text me first. I don't know why I do this, I just do. I explained to them that I can't help it and they understand... I have stupid mental social issues too, but that doesn't make you a terrible person. True friends love you the way you are. c: I'll be 24 this month, I've been single for 2 years, but I have hope there's a guy out there that will truely understand me and love me just because I'm me. c: You don't give up either! And don't feel bad for telling people you're upset. Social anxieties is painful and uncontrollable. I often need reminders that I'm not as bad a person as I think I am. I really hope you feel better! <3
12 Feb, 2014, 11:00 am
I know how you feel. a couple of months ago i had a LDR and we ended it since things didn't work out. most of my past relationships weren't the best. i don't have social anxiety, but i am very shy and very awkward around people that i don't know (once i get to know you though and feel more comfortable then most of the time i won't shut up xD). i understand you're loneliness and not making contact with friends much. hang in there hun :). you'll find you're special someone and they'll love you for who you are. you have an amazing talent in art and i'm sure you're a pretty neat person in general :D. as ppl said on here you'll never be alone and you won't. i'm 24, single, and going to eat all the chocolate's i can get my greedy-chocohalic hands on (CHOCOLATESSSSS!!!) for v-day lol. spend it however you wish! take care and enjoy your life :)!
(>^-^)><(^-^<) ~*kirby hug*~ (i hope this made you smile)
12 Feb, 2014, 11:43 am
aww its ok Ive never really had a boy friend either :(
12 Feb, 2014, 11:47 am
(im happy you like the fan art!) I get so happy when you comment! It just makes my day a whole lot better ( 3
12 Feb, 2014, 11:49 am
You'll find love. And if not this year, maybe next year c: Just for now, look to your friends for support...and be strong. Boys are very silly...it's hard trying to find the right one.
12 Feb, 2014, 12:09 pm
I know how you feel...
I may not hate Valentines Day, but I know the feeling of lonliness and longing for being wanted that you feel inside....
I know it's probably pretty much your DREAM to find a boyfriend... It's my dream to move out of my mom's house... But i have no exact knowledge of when...
Sometimes there's just nothing left to do but wait... <3 And I believe that the longer you wait, the better it will be when you get what you desire....
Just remember, dreams are accomplished unexpectedly; the perfect opportunity is a surprise... <3 Dont let these feelings hold you down... c: You're smile feels my heart with sunshine....
12 Feb, 2014, 12:45 pm
I hadna lot of extra time in b/w so yeah. But you can still have the tyranitar if you want it still, I don't have your fc tho
12 Feb, 2014, 1:40 pm
Awww, that's really sad... : ( Personally, I've never cared about getting a girlfriend and so, I guess I'm too young. I still feel really sorry for you though. But believe me, someday, you'll find your love. It may be tomorrow, may be in after years... who knows?
12 Feb, 2014, 2:03 pm
same here..
12 Feb, 2014, 2:55 pm
AWWW acid..thats so sad Q.Q ik youll find some one, if it makes you feel better thats kinda how my first 2 BF's were, they only went out with me cuz they felt sorry for me. i mean my whole life i was labled as a freak. Youll have a valentine i know it!! this year is the first year il have my own also XD cheer up bud, love sucks. just gotta move around and be yourself.
12 Feb, 2014, 3:04 pm
I hate it too, in the same boat, but I'm 16. Valentine's day always depresses me, so don't worry you're not alone. <3
12 Feb, 2014, 3:28 pm
i missed valentines day when i wad in kindergarten because all the candy. -n-
12 Feb, 2014, 3:29 pm
Hey, having a boyfriend isn't really necessary. I don't have one. It's just to much drama. And I don't think you should involve yourself in that drama. I'm not sure about whether or not you'll read this (or care, for that matter), but just know that It'll be fine. There's someone out there that's just for you.
12 Feb, 2014, 4:12 pm
It's okay dood, there's someone out there for you...
My gf and I have been together since May- well, my mum made us break up for a while, but we're back together now c:
Trust me, there's someone for all of us <3
12 Feb, 2014, 4:49 pm
I can't say anything that'll make this go away in all reality, but I'll still wish you the best and state that there IS a perfect someone out there out there for you, but they'll be hiding in a bush of thorns. It'll hurt, but once you find them it's worth it. c:
12 Feb, 2014, 5:07 pm
I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship. I look at it as not a result of my social issues, but a part of who I am. I don't jump into relationships, I am someone who has to really know and have real and deep feelings for someone. It takes time for that to happen and by then, I was usually switching from middle school to high school or leaving high school and they were gone. It seems lonely and seeing others do it so easily makes things more difficult. However, I have come to see the easy relatioships of others, which rarely last, as something I wouldn't waste time on. What I want/need is far more than what they have, so I am not envious. Unfortunately, real relationships of others are still extremely hard to witness. I guess my point is, it's hard, but it seems to be part of who you are. There's no need to feel anything but love for yourself and who you are.
12 Feb, 2014, 7:28 pm
It's alright Acid. I've never had a good valentines either. Or a boyfriend. Which I dought I'll ever have one. People say I'm wierd and ugly. I am very shy and sometimes I can be antisocial. So you're not alone.
12 Feb, 2014, 8:10 pm
trust me, youll find that special person. im 18, and i just found someone.
but valentines day is a day of love, the dont say what kind though.
you can love family and friends too, so spend the day with ur family.
12 Feb, 2014, 11:17 pm
thats what's family's for. c :
13 Feb, 2014, 12:16 am
im having a contest and i want you to be in it it is on feb. 14 and dont be loney
13 Feb, 2014, 1:08 am
I certainly feel ya. I've never had a boyfriend, either. Even though I really want to fall in love... I dream of it, and have a few crushes. But I have social anxiety, too. I'm afraid to talk to people in general, let alone a guy I like. It's actually pretty bad and it often depresses me... The only way I can get across to other people and get their attention is through my art. But yea... I hope it gets better for both of us. Hopefully one day we won't spend Valentine's Day alone.
13 Feb, 2014, 4:35 am
lol, i dont have any friends either. and by my design i dont feel acutely attracted to anyone
13 Feb, 2014, 5:40 am
Pretty much describes me too. If you have a crush, just tell him. Its better to know then to never get a chance to confess your feelings. I know dem feels
13 Feb, 2014, 4:29 pm
you people are lucky no one follows my page plus im always lonely and im nineteen too its probably cuz im ugly :/
13 Feb, 2014, 7:55 pm
Dude... so many comments... ._.
14 Feb, 2014, 3:15 am
Sounds just like me.
14 Feb, 2014, 3:00 pm
I know how you feel... Lots of people don't have boyfriends, including me. Hang in there and maybe pet your cat, I heard it releaves stress
14 Feb, 2014, 8:22 pm
that sucks :(
14 Feb, 2014, 9:39 pm
Well I say good for you! You've never had to get your heart broken from a break up or anything. I probably won't have my first one for many years since 15 is still quite young for that.
14 Feb, 2014, 11:15 pm
you'll be fine time will pass and stuff will occure.
16 Feb, 2014, 5:21 am
didnt know i was o tumblr
17 Feb, 2014, 8:30 pm
I feel you, I've never had a GF and I'm 16 and honestly I don't mind. My social anxiety is really bad too and I just find confort in drawing and videogames. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, just message me here in Colors or Miiverse or anything :).
22 Mar, 2014, 3:38 pm
i cant find a girl friend
28 Mar, 2014, 11:58 am
I feel the same .w.
I never had a girlfriend
03 Feb, 2022, 12:05 am
Acid, I will be your friend! I may not be cool or popular, but I'll be there! :D
03 Feb, 2022, 12:06 am
And nobody expects you to have a partner. It takes a while to find someone, and I hope that when you do you're happy
19 Jun, 2022, 3:59 am
:(