SORRY FOR THE PERSONAL STUFF... by Whobot
But I feel like I need to get this out of my head if I want to do anything productive today...
So there´s this dude I share a homework assignment group with in Computer science. Great guy, I only know him for a few months and we were already sorta friends.
Since last week I know he´s gay.
And that´s no problem for me, I´m okay with having gay friends.
But since then he also knows that I´m straight and he was acting a lot more reserved the first time I saw him afterwards...
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18 Jan, 2014, 10:24 pm
oh dear
18 Jan, 2014, 10:29 pm
And obviously I´m thinking maybe I was giving off the wrong signals and he was making false hopes for himself.
And I really feel for him because I´m not objected to turning a friendship into a relationship myself.
But I´m unabled to share his feelings should he really have them.
Or maybe I´m just imagining things and he just seemed more reserved because of other reasons!
18 Jan, 2014, 10:32 pm
Hehe, yeah sorry
But I´m just kinda left with my own thoughts and I don´t have anyone to talk to over the weekend...
I just need to get this out somewhere and this place is as good as any.
18 Jan, 2014, 10:54 pm
Permission to comment something totally useless?
18 Jan, 2014, 11:22 pm
@Nightbreaker
Of course :P
Everyone can feel free to comment whatever they want.
This is a free website after all.
18 Jan, 2014, 11:27 pm
I´m also feeling a lot better already just by posting this.
So that´s good :)
18 Jan, 2014, 11:39 pm
Everyone needs to get things off their chest when the need to. If he does like you, at least you know that you're good lookin', right?
19 Jan, 2014, 2:18 am
My advice is to listen to someone else's advice XoD
19 Jan, 2014, 2:41 am
Ironically enough, I had the same problem (but with a girl). I can understand where you're comin' from and how awkward it can be to have someone be like that about you...
19 Jan, 2014, 3:34 am
1. You can't avoid confrontation. That is certain.
2. It will be akward. Also certain.
3. Prepare an apology if what you suspect is true. Think it over and over until it sounds good (and not overdramatic).
4. Don't force anything.
That's all I got, a thirteen-year-old wouldn't have much advice for this anyway. Hope it helps.
19 Jan, 2014, 8:37 am
You can run but you can't hide from CONFRONTATION!