I'm so sorry . . , Your such a good person, better then most . . . You shouldn't haveto go through this, raven. You deserve so much more. And if he doesn't love you, then he can go FRACK HIMSELF! You are mesnt for so much more and there is no room in your life for mor'ons like this sucker! You are magnificence, no matter what he says or does to you! Throw him out, like the gar'bage he is, and wait for another whom wil truly love you. Because he's out there. He igsists. Your tears may fall in waterfalls now, but once you meet him you'll be wrapped up in bliss. You just haveto to wait. And we'll be here to cheer you on and earge you forward and clean your wounds. You can count on it, raven.
It's both...Thank you all for your support...it's just the guy....He says he is genuine...But is he? Why does he keep puttimg me off? Why doesn't he talk to me? Why when he texts he seems so distant? Why do I even try? I thought things were going my way! That I could finally have someone to care about me...Someone to cuddle with, share secrets....But no. I try to say hello, he give me a "Too cool half wave." What happened?? What did I do??
Why when I in the hallway does he not come up to me? Why must I always go to him? He isn't shy! He can talk to most people! I thought...Idk...He likes anime, he sketches, he used to say kind things...Now? Nothing. Literally over the course of one weekend. God...What the heII
No...Ok so basically it started when we were texting and he said I was cute and that he'd ask me out "Next week" (It was thursday) I was exstatic! But in the back of my mind I wondered why he couldn't just the next day...My friends did too. The next day I tried to say hello but he treated me as if nothing had happened. Dishearted that he didn't even give me a happy smile, I went back to my desk quietly. The weekend came and I tried texting him. His answers had no emotion. One worded as if bored or annoyed. I let him go. Stopped texting for two days because I was afraid I was annoying him. I started up another "conversation" but it was even less "enthuiastic" then before. Disheartened I stopped. We got to school, I got excited to see him and then again...Nothing. I texted him today asking if he meant what he said. He said "Yeah but I have work" (He's a soph) But again in my head "WE SEE EACH OTHER AT SCHOOL THERE WAS 50 MINUTES TO TALK TO ME. But nope." No emotion, no "Why would you think that? I'm sorry I am just stressed and it slipped my mind" No. He said "Maybe next week. *Falls to the ground exhasperated*
Something similair happened to one of my sisters recently.
If you want my advice, here it is: don't bother with him. If he can't be bothered to talk to or even wave at you, then you shouldn't bother to lavish your love on him. He might as well not love you at all if he can't even take ten minutes to come up to you and say; " Hi, Shannon! How was your day? " Let him go and save your love for someone who actualy cares.
Oh no! I'm so sorry! Like REALLY! ;-; Poor thing. I have this happen so often. Well,not the entire "Your cute" and asking me out thing (I've never been liked or asked out, it sucks) but when I quietly have a crush on someone or something like that, they just ignore me. I know that they don't know how I feel, but it's much more deep than I explained. I know what it's like to have a broken heart. And believe me, when I saw this picture, I seriously went "Oh no! Poor honey!" and felt your pain, like really felt it. I'm so sorry. I can't even explain it, but when you first found this "love" I felt it, I was so happy for you, and now, I feel bad for you. It's weirdly real....
I'm so sorry Shannon... I know what that's like... it's the worst -_- It crushes you and you love them so much and only you keep trying. That isn't how it should be...
I know this might not help too much, but I've learned that boys don't want to be chased after. Boys are skirt-chasers. If they see a girl they like, they will chase after her until they find anither girl and befriend her and drop the other. It is hard to do this, but if a boy doesn't like you, don't go chasing him, or he will learn to hate you. Just advice, you don't need take it. I've learned it this way. :) :3
I understand your pain...If you saw my newest pic... Raven don't let him play with you! Just confront him...And If he srill shows no emotion, give him a chance. TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM. REAL LIFE. if he says mmhmm, nods, covers it up with a kiss, or looks away
Stay away from him! He Would only break your heart...And we all know that doesn't feel good... :'c
This is so deep. *-* You as Brightheart doubting Cloudtail will love you. There's a lot of reasons why this guy is treating you with little love. Perhaps he's confused about his feelings or was in a relationship that didn't end so well, causing him to be distant and unsure. Maybe he really is playing with you. It's possible that he was just put up to the task by another guy... A guy that either wants you to feel depressed or has a slight crush on you. Or this guy you like just doesn't understand love (like myself), doesn't want to hurt you by being in a relationship, or... That's a lot of possibilities. If things are not working out, it's best just to move on and find another person who actually cares for you. I hope everything will be alright. I hate it when I see other people down in the dumps...
"Maybe next week" Oh god what a jerk! You deserve better... if he hasn't asked you out yet, he probably doesn't like you that much... I say try a few more times but if he stays being so jerk-y, he's not worth the effort.
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23 Oct, 2013, 3:57 am
Raven...is this a vent or just Warriors...? Either way...it's beautiful sadness, I'd say...
23 Oct, 2013, 4:03 am
I'm so sorry . . , Your such a good person, better then most . . . You shouldn't haveto go through this, raven. You deserve so much more. And if he doesn't love you, then he can go FRACK HIMSELF! You are mesnt for so much more and there is no room in your life for mor'ons like this sucker! You are magnificence, no matter what he says or does to you! Throw him out, like the gar'bage he is, and wait for another whom wil truly love you. Because he's out there. He igsists. Your tears may fall in waterfalls now, but once you meet him you'll be wrapped up in bliss. You just haveto to wait. And we'll be here to cheer you on and earge you forward and clean your wounds. You can count on it, raven.
23 Oct, 2013, 4:08 am
It's both...Thank you all for your support...it's just the guy....He says he is genuine...But is he? Why does he keep puttimg me off? Why doesn't he talk to me? Why when he texts he seems so distant? Why do I even try? I thought things were going my way! That I could finally have someone to care about me...Someone to cuddle with, share secrets....But no. I try to say hello, he give me a "Too cool half wave." What happened?? What did I do??
23 Oct, 2013, 4:11 am
Why when I in the hallway does he not come up to me? Why must I always go to him? He isn't shy! He can talk to most people! I thought...Idk...He likes anime, he sketches, he used to say kind things...Now? Nothing. Literally over the course of one weekend. God...What the heII
23 Oct, 2013, 4:12 am
He's not being "Mean" But he doesn't seem to care.
I am afraid he played with me and then quickly became bored of his "Toy"
23 Oct, 2013, 4:14 am
Did he break up with you? If he did hes so rude mean and he dosen't deserve you. You deserve better!
23 Oct, 2013, 4:21 am
This is so mean! D: You dont deserve this. And him. You deserve better. Im so sorry for you. :C *hugs*
23 Oct, 2013, 4:22 am
I'm sorry...... Even though you don't know me, I'm still here if you ever want to talk. : (
23 Oct, 2013, 4:26 am
No...Ok so basically it started when we were texting and he said I was cute and that he'd ask me out "Next week" (It was thursday) I was exstatic! But in the back of my mind I wondered why he couldn't just the next day...My friends did too. The next day I tried to say hello but he treated me as if nothing had happened. Dishearted that he didn't even give me a happy smile, I went back to my desk quietly. The weekend came and I tried texting him. His answers had no emotion. One worded as if bored or annoyed. I let him go. Stopped texting for two days because I was afraid I was annoying him. I started up another "conversation" but it was even less "enthuiastic" then before. Disheartened I stopped. We got to school, I got excited to see him and then again...Nothing. I texted him today asking if he meant what he said. He said "Yeah but I have work" (He's a soph) But again in my head "WE SEE EACH OTHER AT SCHOOL THERE WAS 50 MINUTES TO TALK TO ME. But nope." No emotion, no "Why would you think that? I'm sorry I am just stressed and it slipped my mind" No. He said "Maybe next week.
*Falls to the ground exhasperated*
23 Oct, 2013, 4:28 am
*bangs head repeatedly*
23 Oct, 2013, 4:49 am
Something similair happened to one of my sisters recently.
If you want my advice, here it is: don't bother with him. If he can't be bothered to talk to or even wave at you, then you shouldn't bother to lavish your love on him. He might as well not love you at all if he can't even take ten minutes to come up to you and say; " Hi, Shannon! How was your day? " Let him go and save your love for someone who actualy cares.
23 Oct, 2013, 5:00 am
Oh no! I'm so sorry! Like REALLY! ;-; Poor thing. I have this happen so often. Well,not the entire "Your cute" and asking me out thing (I've never been liked or asked out, it sucks) but when I quietly have a crush on someone or something like that, they just ignore me. I know that they don't know how I feel, but it's much more deep than I explained. I know what it's like to have a broken heart. And believe me, when I saw this picture, I seriously went "Oh no! Poor honey!" and felt your pain, like really felt it. I'm so sorry. I can't even explain it, but when you first found this "love" I felt it, I was so happy for you, and now, I feel bad for you. It's weirdly real....
23 Oct, 2013, 5:26 am
He might be going through a depressipn or somthing. If he's just not talking to anyone.
23 Oct, 2013, 6:34 am
This is very Amazing!
23 Oct, 2013, 1:18 pm
Thats why love is called falling in love, somtimes it catches you somtimes it does not. But you will never know unless you try.
23 Oct, 2013, 3:33 pm
I'm so sorry Shannon... I know what that's like... it's the worst -_- It crushes you and you love them so much and only you keep trying. That isn't how it should be...
23 Oct, 2013, 6:06 pm
I know this might not help too much, but I've learned that boys don't want to be chased after. Boys are skirt-chasers. If they see a girl they like, they will chase after her until they find anither girl and befriend her and drop the other. It is hard to do this, but if a boy doesn't like you, don't go chasing him, or he will learn to hate you.
Just advice, you don't need take it. I've learned it this way. :) :3
23 Oct, 2013, 8:41 pm
I understand your pain...If you saw my newest pic...
Raven don't let him play with you! Just confront him...And If he srill shows no emotion, give him a chance. TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM. REAL LIFE. if he says mmhmm, nods, covers it up with a kiss, or looks away
Stay away from him! He Would only break your heart...And we all know that doesn't feel good... :'c
23 Oct, 2013, 9:18 pm
This is so deep. *-* You as Brightheart doubting Cloudtail will love you. There's a lot of reasons why this guy is treating you with little love. Perhaps he's confused about his feelings or was in a relationship that didn't end so well, causing him to be distant and unsure. Maybe he really is playing with you. It's possible that he was just put up to the task by another guy... A guy that either wants you to feel depressed or has a slight crush on you. Or this guy you like just doesn't understand love (like myself), doesn't want to hurt you by being in a relationship, or... That's a lot of possibilities. If things are not working out, it's best just to move on and find another person who actually cares for you.
I hope everything will be alright. I hate it when I see other people down in the dumps...
23 Oct, 2013, 11:21 pm
I thought things were going good with that guy? What happened?
24 Oct, 2013, 2:15 am
"Maybe next week" Oh god what a jerk! You deserve better... if he hasn't asked you out yet, he probably doesn't like you that much... I say try a few more times but if he stays being so jerk-y, he's not worth the effort.
24 Oct, 2013, 5:39 am
MidnightOpal,
Pshkt! Yeah! He sure is! That, and a friggin' ***hole!
24 Oct, 2013, 9:36 am
Oh... Brightheart looks very sweet ! And sad...
15 Apr, 2014, 11:09 pm
This is why I don't have any crushes or BFs.