not for me,its not so much as a trap,because some people just dont like responsablity.so thats why they say its sometimes.other times,some people"wish they were single"?heres what i gota ask,"why the fluck would they wana give up what i always wanted,and i can seem to ever get"?REALLY,if ur hubby or wify annoys the hell out of u,u shouldn't have gotten married DumbA$$!u should atleast wait to find the right man/woman.like me lol haha jk,what im i talking talking about im just a 14 year old:P!!!!