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Sometimes it's just better to be left alone...

Yes they are quite the amazing bird...

The problem is people love for the wrong reasons. You love someone because you have similarities too that person, and because well you 'both' like each other for who you are. The problem is people fall in love with the outside, and looks only last so long, then they're gone! Then what, you get a divorce? No! It's just so wrong! Love is ment to last longer then looks. Take the time to get to know the person before marrage, one to two years max before you diside... sorry I ramble alot and I get way off subject. But Barns Owls are alsome birds the best in my point of veiw^-^ But yah 'most' humans just fall in love for the wrong reasons and with things that won't last.

Ahh the only problem I have with falling in love online is that your so far away from them and if you do realy truely love them, then that gap... hurts... that and I dislike the fact that you never know if that is how they realy act/are... you know?... lol I could be an sixty year old man for all you know (sorry for image XD) lol but no I'm not an old man not unless you call sixteen old, then I'm old! XD Sorry didn't mean to make this conversation creepy, but don't worry your not the only one with that problem... at least your falling in love for some of the right reasons^-^

So wait he's afraid and won't meet you? Girl if you love him you gotta go talk to him, he'll wana talk to you to if he loves you, he'll open that door and come out if he truely does. Is he afraid that you won't like the way he looks? (I take it you haven't seen him?) He'll get over that fear if you go and show that you ecept him no matter what he looks like. I don't know how much you know of him, or what you think of him, nore what he thinks of you so I appolagize if I cause any offense in anyway. But Red if your only a little more then 3 hours away I'd go meet him, that's what I'd do if it was someone I loved, and they were that close. I'd go meet them, but of course I'm not in your shoes, and you should take ever percaution. If you do go tell someone you know, and trust. You never know what kind of people are out there, again I don't know what you know of him so I appolagize if I cause offence. But if he's what he says he is and you are what you say you are, and yu both love each other. I'd wanna get together... but to talk face to face of corse. Talking online doesn't have the same apeal as talking face to face. Well that's all I dare say before I say anything too offensive, again this is my opinion, I'm not in your shoes I don't know how you, or he feels about you, but good luck^-^

Just remember to take it slow your still only 16 got blenty of years ahead of you^-^ but talk to him see what's up

What form of contacts do/did you have with him? Colors, phone, email, facebook, etc. If you know his real name or adress you can just look him up in the phone books. Just call (I'm asumeing he's the same age) and if the parents pick up just say "Hey I was woundering if so so was home, I'm his friend so so." or say something like that, Idk you probably shouldn't be taking advise from me XD well I hope you find away to contact him, good luck. Oh and if you don't have a car you could take the bus, but you probably wanna quick get away just in case, again you never know what's out there, I appolagize if I caused offense

I can see why your afraid. Your afraid he might not be what you thought, that his words might've made him sound to you like a different person then he realy is, or that he could've changed in the time that you haven't talked to him. (I'm asuming it's been awhile) Your also probably afraid that he might be a lie... Red don't be afraid to be afraid, being afraid helps warn, helps prapare you for what might happen, cause he might be all of those things. I'm just warning you, there are alot of bad people out there, and if he's three years older then you then he should be out on his own (I'm asuming) And if he's on his own and you go to meet him (bring something to deffend youself with) you'll be alone with him. Fear is telling you to take procaution (which you should) But fear is there to 'warn' you not 'stop' you.^-^ he could be everything you thought he'd be plus some. Red just be careful okay but don't let fear rule your life, the light may have just only turned yellow (which means you can keep going, it's safe, it's just warning you that it's about to turn red sorry I over complicate things) Just use that fear as a yeild sign not a stop sign. And you can aways rent ah car (I'm asuming you have a drivers license) Well anyways I wish you the best of luck and remember fear is a good thing, it's there to help. Sorry I'm not much help, and I appolagize if I've made any offense.

if you are alone do not be sad most loners are the most intelligent people on the planet. Think it comes from all the time we spend thinking.