I need advice! by NereusXUnmi
Okay so yesurday I found out that my best friend has a crush on me for four years, I'll admit she's a nice girl but I see her as a very good friend.
Now...here's the problem, she's sensitive to negativity, if I tell her I only see her as a friend, she'll cry and won't talk to me for months, I would really feel bad then....
So I'm just wondering... how do I let her down gently without breaking her heart?
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13 Jun, 2013, 10:19 am
Just go for it, she'll get bored of you. (just gotta do stuff she doesn't like)
13 Jun, 2013, 10:21 am
Thats a tough one. But if she is your best friend then she should ditch you. She might need time to heal and move until she is ready to hangout again.
It's risky dating a friend so you could tell her it isnt worth losing your friendship over.
13 Jun, 2013, 10:22 am
shouldn't *
13 Jun, 2013, 12:13 pm
cute
13 Jun, 2013, 6:03 pm
Let her know how you feel right away, even if it does hurt her -- she will have to understand. Either way you could lose her. *sigh* I have dealt with this issue myself. Or if you want, try an experiment for yourself like I have. Don't say anything. Go ahead and hang out but act out character a bit. You will be basically forcing something new on yourself to see if feelings progress. What you DO NOT want to do is kissing, hugging, hand holding, anything that has to do with a physical touch, intimately.
13 Jun, 2013, 6:13 pm
It will be like a friendship with some twists. She will want to do what she wants but you need to restrict them as well, letting her know it makes you uncomfortable. It's difficult to describe all this but as I have said, I myself have dealt with it before. What happened? My friend lost interest when she felt my signals overtime. Realizing that I really was not into her in that way. So then she eventually made friends with someone else. I'll admit. I was jealous because we had been friends for so long one day she just decided "new best friend." Then those two fell in love and started hanging out with each other more often. She and I were so-so at that point until it was all 3 of us hanging together during the last of our highschool years.
06 Jul, 2013, 9:45 am
Don't use her to "experiment" with your s.exuality -- she is YOUR FRIEND, she is a PERSON, she has FEELINGS.
No matter how polite you try to be, rejection hurts. What's cruel is playing mind games with her that might allow her feelings for you to grow.
06 Jul, 2013, 9:54 am
If you don't have feelings for her just don't try to date her. It will be painful for both, and moreso for her since she's the one in love.
Try not to say "I don't like you" -- call her sister or use positive phrases like: "you're my best friend" -- ahh, not good with wording, but do you see what I mean? x.x
01 Sep, 2013, 4:33 am
wait your a girl !?!?