How Can People Be So Cruel? by aninarutonerd13

I'm really upset/depressed...Today I ran into some girls I graduated with & went over to say "hi, how have you guys been? ^w^" After a few moments into the conversation, I noticed I was being criticized for still not looking any diffrent[I look like I'm only 13 still] and that I STILL have not had/or been in a relationship w/anyone yet...I was labled as a "Child" and a "Failure" as a girl...How can someone be so blantently cruel right to someones face like that?!...It made me feel so ugly...

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31 May, 2013, 4:33 am
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peachonthegrid

31 May, 2013, 4:39 am

Don't mind those people! They used to bring me down, but now I shut them out and walk on. I've got a reputation for ignoring those kinds of people, so now they don't bother me. I don't care if I'm stupid, lame, or "immature", I will always be me. No one can change that. :)

dancewithanime

31 May, 2013, 4:41 am

People are crule to others to hide how they feel or to hide the fact that they envy someone...in this case the awesome you :D

Abstractio

31 May, 2013, 4:47 am

dont worry your fine the way you are.

J0KER

31 May, 2013, 4:49 am

Trust me... for a girl, looking young is gonna be a compliment when you get older... They can have their saggy baggy skin if they want...

slowkingmaster

31 May, 2013, 5:01 am

Those people are just jealous, your amazing :D

aninarutonerd13

31 May, 2013, 5:05 am

Thanks for the kind words you guys, it's times like these I can really sense why you guys are so precious to me ^.^ ...You all give me so much insparation from your support. I just feel saying "Thanks" isn't enough for this...but you all really cheered me up

Anne Chovy

31 May, 2013, 5:12 am

I hate when people are like that and it can get me so mad! I feel for you.

XxNeroxX

31 May, 2013, 5:36 am

Aww the pic so cute <33 but in all seriousness the people who said that just jealous because they cant be as nice and sweet and kawaii as u :)

MikETROID

31 May, 2013, 11:29 am

I wish I had an answer for that. If it helps you feel any better, Ive never been in a relationship yet either

DestinySword

31 May, 2013, 11:38 am

Look more young than you are is something very good, it´s a sign of slow ageing :)

You´ll probably live a lot of years !! They are just jealous !! XD

aninarutonerd13

31 May, 2013, 12:28 pm

I guess what upset me about the "No relationship still" part is they know why I haven't been in 1 [ I don't think I should tell you guys the reason 'cuz I don't want you all to feel even WORSE for me ] But to put things in short: I've been through a lot, especially bad things that most people would need 3 lifetimes & had to GROW-UP @ a young age, never had much of a childhood, so I'm pretty sure I'd NEVER find someone to be able to/put up w/it all.

AJ426

31 May, 2013, 1:30 pm

Don't listen to them! Some people are just plain out JERKS! You can draw better than them! you have everyone on colors!

AJ426

31 May, 2013, 1:32 pm

That have your back too!

mrjoegreen

31 May, 2013, 1:45 pm

You know during my high school time, I've been a shadow in the darkness. I would not have been there and nobody would have noticed. I didn't went to the prom. But now, I don't care at all. Now I'm in college (french-canadian education system is different) and I have good friends with common points. All I want to say is that the only person who needs to like you is you. :)

aninarutonerd13

31 May, 2013, 6:06 pm

*sniff/smile* Thanks you guys, You all are so great ^.^ I'm feeling better, my grandma took me out today after my doctor's appt. and I got some new refrence books to help me make more "How 2's" lessons for you :D [ I also got a new hat xD ] But don't worry, I'm good now...you guys really are such good friends T.T *Happy Tears*

MadEngine

31 May, 2013, 7:58 pm

They said that because they are still immature people in a high schooler mind, where being in 8 relationships in 1 year is normal and being snobby is a way to show their failiure in life. Just ignore them, they'll probably be washed up drug users in a ghetto in due time, as far as I can tell you succeeded where they have failed

aninarutonerd13

02 Jun, 2013, 6:05 am

I've been there, the BULLIED part not the relationship part though (^.^)' But, the few friends I had in school gave me the determination to keep being myself, and because of that, My art blossomed, and the song bird deep down inside me I always kept caged in fear of others broke free. I did MANY compotitions and won an AVERAGE of GOLD or SILVER :) I never could have done it or be able to draw with confidence now if I didn't have them/still have them. Thats why ALL my FRIENDS are so precious to me ^w^

CPanthers84

03 Jun, 2013, 11:00 pm

Don't worry about those who are that immature. Just always remember karma strikes quickly to ill-mannered people. The Colors! nation got your back!

iluvgreek

04 Jun, 2013, 4:13 am

step 1 : ignore them
step 2 : forget them
step 3 : find better people
hopeful result : thay grow up relize how stupid thay where acting,and possibly be kinder

lin-chan

26 Jun, 2013, 10:27 pm

Looking young is good!!
When you're young, you want to look older, but when you're old, you want to look younger.
I'd take their comment as a compliment!
You look pretty how you are :3

Niftysupermario56

07 Jul, 2015, 7:16 pm

AAAARRRGGGHHHH!!!
I HATE PEOPLE THAT DO THAT!
[probably why i don't talk to anyone ever because lots of people SUCK]
IGNORE THEM.
IM FOURTEEN AND I STILL LOOK LIKE I DID IN GRADE 5.
[or atleast a i still feel that old]
ANYWAYS UR NOT UGLY YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN EVERYWAY AND UR AWESOME AT DRAWING AND I THINK YOU'RE COURAGEOUS FOR EVEN LOOKING AT PEOPLE FROM MIDDLE SCHOOL!
YOU GO GIRL!

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