It is AMAZING how I am not required to use the sonar pen. Since I am a child, I have to save up money. So untill I get a pen, please don't judge how it looks! My pen/stylus is from the brand Mixoo in my opinion it works just like the pen (Just without the wire). I prefer she/her. I'm in the sixth grade. I am an ally in the #LGBTQIA+ community. I prefer the term h o m o s e x u a l but any word like lesbian or gay (which is mostly used for boys!) is fine!